Breakups -Tom

So as you now know, Cal just got through a break up. The poor kid has been having a hard time, because break ups suck. Like a whole lot.

Especially when you try to let 'em down easy. 

There is a whole lot of assuming what the other person is experiencing or thinking or feeling and trying to counter that reaction because you still care about them but at the same time you want to take care of yourself emotionally too. Honestly, there is no way to win. 

But eventually things get better. Maybe not between exes, but for each of them life goes on and better things come along. Don't let the terror of today cloud the adventure that tomorrow holds. More on this later.

-Tom